When James first started using Shared Lives, life looked very different. He rarely left the house. His learning needs made it tough for him to get out and about, even with support from his parents. He had stopped going to college and spent most of his time at home, sticking to his routines and watching sports on TV.
James was stuck in a cycle of isolation. His parents could see he wasn’t happy and needed something to change. So, during a social care review, they reached out for support. That’s when Shared Lives came into the picture.
A helping hand through Shared Lives
PSS Shared Lives carer, Nicki, was matched with James and started by introducing herself. They took things slowly, and when James felt ready, he went on a short visit to Nicki’s house. It wasn’t long before James started to feel comfortable with Nicki, and from there, the transformation began.
Living life to the fullest
Over the past six months, James’ life has completely turned around. He’s back at college – a place he’d once loved but stopped going to. Every week, he goes on exciting outings with Nicki and the other people she supports. They’ve made so many memories together already like:
- Sharing laughs over coffee at the local shopping outlet
- Exploring a local owl and bird sanctuary
- Enjoying indoor sports together

James’ epilepsy means he needs to be careful with what and when he eats, as hunger can trigger seizures. Nicki always makes sure he has access to food and supports him to stay healthy and safe.
James’ mum says the difference in him is incredible. She’s overwhelmed by the support Nicki has given and regularly shares how happy she is with the whole Shared Lives arrangement.
The smile on James’ face says it all – he’s thriving, and his confidence is growing every day.
Ready to make a difference?
Shared Lives carers support people like James to live their best lives. You don’t need any specific qualifications, just a big heart, a spare room, and a willingness to help someone thrive. Carers are self-employed and receive training, support, and a fee for the amazing work they do.
If you’ve ever thought about making a difference, now’s the time. Find out how you can become a Shared Lives carer today.